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Bette A. Ludwig, PhD 🌱's avatar

You’re absolutely right. Sometimes the best thing we can do is go with the direction we’re being pulled instead of fighting it. The harder you fight, the more it can pull you under. The real skill is knowing when it’s okay to go with it rather than push back.

Sam Illingworth's avatar

Wonderful post Sarah, thank you. Definitely taking some time now to reflect on which battles are actually mine, and which tides I can swim sideways against (lovely imagery!). 🙏

The AI Architect's avatar

The riptide analogy really works because it captures something we all fight against. When you're trying to fix every broken system, you're basically drowning from exhaustion before you even get close to shore. I've noticed the people who actually change things aren't the ones burning themselves out on every battle, they're the ones who picked their lane and stayed in it. Your point about the body knowing really makes sense when you think about how much energy we waste on fights that never felt like ours to begin with.

Sarah Seeking Ikigai's avatar

Thank you so much AI Architect and you've just articulated something I didn't quite land on myself... "picked their lane and stayed in it." That's the whole thing, isn't it? The body really does know. Thanks for swimming alongside me on this one 🌊 🥰

Star jumps and ginger's avatar

Wow...and that doesn't touch the sides of wow! Thank you so much for this beautiful composition...it has touched my being more than I can begin to explain. On so many levels, thank you.

I have saved it as I know I will need and want to read it again later, and tomorrow and many more days, thank you. This is very special 🙏

Sarah Seeking Ikigai's avatar

Thank you so much Philippa, this message is such a gift... honestly, knowing it touched something real is the whole point of showing up week after week. The fact that you'll return to it? That means more than I can say. We're all just swimming out here, aren't we? So glad our paths crossed in the waters 🌊 🥰